The physical distancing from home becomes a catalyst for Ida's emotional development. The journey to Rügen symbolizes not only a geographical relocation but a necessary step in processing her trauma.

Through the warm-hearted reception by Knut and Marianne and the connection to Leif, it shows how significant chance encounters can be for the healing process. The new relationships become a therapeutic anchor in Ida's life.

The novel explores the complex dynamics between grief, guilt, and forgiveness. Ida's inability to say goodbye to her mother becomes the starting point for a profound confrontation with loss and self-acceptance.