The author felt compelled to understand her childhood connection to Mabegzo and, through this understanding, shed light on broader societal issues affecting young black men in South Africa. The process became both a personal healing journey and a social commentary.

No, the book doesn't excuse or justify his actions. Instead, it provides context and understanding of the factors that contributed to his life choices while maintaining a critical perspective on his criminal behavior.

The book's exploration of violence, trauma, and healing remains highly relevant to contemporary discussions about crime, social justice, and the impact of childhood experiences on adult behavior. It offers valuable insights into understanding and addressing societal violence.