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Getting to Yes

Roger Fisher, William Ury

188 Pages
1981

Getting to Yes

Boston : Houghton Mifflin

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Tired of arguments that go nowhere? Frustrated with feeling like you have to choose between getting your way and preserving the relationship? 'Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In' by Roger Fisher and William Ury offers a refreshing alternative to the usual win-lose dynamic of negotiations. This book provides a practical, step-by-step method for reaching mutually beneficial agreements in all areas of life.

Key Ideas

1

Separate the People from the Problem

Fisher and Ury emphasize the importance of disentangling the relationship between parties from the substance of the negotiation. This means addressing emotions, building rapport, and avoiding personal attacks. By focusing on shared interests and understanding each other's perspectives, negotiations can be more collaborative and less adversarial.

2

Focus on Interests, Not Positions

Negotiators often get stuck arguing over their stated positions, which are just the tip of the iceberg. This book encourages delving deeper to uncover the underlying interests and needs driving those positions. By understanding the 'why' behind each side's demands, it becomes possible to brainstorm creative solutions that satisfy everyone's core concerns.

3

Invent Options for Mutual Gain

Rather than resorting to a fixed-pie mentality where one side's gain is the other's loss, 'Getting to Yes' advocates for expanding the pie by generating multiple options. This requires brainstorming collaboratively, exploring different possibilities, and thinking outside the box. By focusing on shared interests and being open to new ideas, parties can often find solutions that are mutually beneficial and create value for everyone involved.

FAQ's

While it's certainly valuable for business contexts, 'Getting to Yes' offers principles and techniques applicable to a wide range of situations, including personal relationships, family discussions, and community conflicts.

The book argues that while negotiation often involves conflict, it doesn't have to be a battle. By changing your approach and adopting the principles outlined in the book, you can work collaboratively to find solutions that benefit everyone involved.

Even if the other party isn't familiar with the principles in 'Getting to Yes,' the authors provide strategies for dealing with difficult negotiators and maneuvering through challenging situations while still striving for mutually beneficial outcomes.

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