Toth meticulously traces the historical trajectory of marriage and singleness, from the early church's radical embrace of singleness to the modern emphasis on romantic love and coupledom. This historical context unveils how cultural norms, rather than biblical mandates, have shaped our current perceptions.

Toth challenges the often-unquestioned pedestal upon which marriage sits within Christian circles. She argues that this idolization not only creates a hierarchy that devalues singleness but also places undue pressure on married couples to achieve an idealized, and often unattainable, version of happiness.

The heart of Toth's argument lies in her call to redefine 'family' beyond the traditional nuclear model. She envisions the church as a space where both single and married individuals can experience genuine belonging, mutual support, and spiritual kinship. This reframing challenges churches to move beyond marriage-centric models and embrace the diverse gifts and callings of all members.